With all due respect, there was no violation of any agreement. You were not in Caustic Soda at the time - in fact you were not in any alliance at all, so that's simply untrue.
Given that you personally are in violation of the agreement, I think it would indeed be wise if you would wind your neck in before you do any further damage to your own alliance. Whist I have the utmost sympathy for you and your personal issues, it is NOT acceptable to take it out on other people in our alliance at any level. I'm afraid your post is absolute proof that RT is correct; at no point was he flippant about your issues, but you try to twist his words to deflect from your own unacceptable behaviour. Everyone has seen through this trick now, Beth, you are completely wasting your time trying it on - it's one reason why nobody trusts you any more, you're simply dishonest in the way you behave, and aggressively dishonest at that. There was no need for you to make a fool of yourself here again, but you just couldn't resist the chance to have another dig at RT, could you? You've been trying to undermine his reputation all server, yet have only succeeded in undermining your own by doing exactly what RT says - constant attempts to control people, paranoia, and the desire to always have the last word. Add in your continual twisting of people's words to misrepresent what they say, and it's no surprise you're no longer trusted by anyone on the server, so far as I can tell. You have sympathy for your RL issues, but that does not give you carte blanche for unacceptable behaviour in-game or here.
If you need more time to look after your personal issues, VM or not we will give it to you. If you carry on mouthing off like this, though, you will only lose whatever friends you might have left, which I'm afraid is a rapidly dwindling number. This server does not revolve around you; in fact, I think you're becoming increasingly irrelevant. I personally find that immensely sad, but I'm afraid it's entirely your own doing.